I remember going to a bridal shower and the bride opened a box and inside was a card to Sharon and Michael, wishing them all the best. The bride who opened the box was Adrienne and her groom was Daniel.
My sister opened an engagement gift from friends of our parents and after unwrapping the present the box looked a little dusty and in some spots you could see the cardboard where the original wrapping paper was held with scotch tape. The gift was a plastic serving tray that also had dust on it.
Both of these gifts were obviously re-gifts.
Here's my advice if you are going to re-gift something - for a wedding, shower or any occasion - and yes I know that you shouldn't re-gift something but the truth is, it happens:
- Double check the box the item came in to make sure there isn't a card written to you or someone else, in case this gift to you was a re-gift.
- Make sure there are no receipts that show the date the purchase was made, unless it was in the last 30 days and exchangeable.
- If the items has been out of the box, clean it so it doesn't look dusty and buy a nice box and tissue paper to wrap it in.
- If there are marks on the box that show where wrapping paper was held with tape then try to use tape in the same places so that when the paper comes off it can be assumed that this wrapping paper made those marks.
Now I'm not saying that re-gifting is okay to do. What I am saying is that if you're going to do it follow these tips so that you don't get caught.