How to Avoid a Bra Blunder on Your Wedding Day

It’s very important you make sure your wedding dress’ undergarments give you both the support and coverage you need. A sexy dress should expose some skin but not bare all, especially in front of your future in-laws and grandma.

When trying on wedding dresses make sure you feel comfortable with a low V or other revealing neckline. Don’t be afraid to ask the salesperson and a seamstress from the store what they can do to make sure your girls stay hidden and you don’t have a J. Lo moment on your big day. (If you missed it, one of her nipples popped out on stage at the Oscars in her stunning, but quite revealing gown.)

The best person to help you find the right bra or bra alternate is the bridal salon seamstress, so don’t be shy about asking questions. There are a number of foundation options you may have -- sewing cups into the dress, strapless, convertible, stickers to keep fabric from moving. It’s important that you get the proper support you need so you’re not pulling the neckline of the gown on your wedding day.

Take the months before the first fitting appointment to visit several lingerie stores and try on, and purchase, multiple styles. Bring everything with you to the fitting -- and leave the tags on -- to try on what really will work best. After you have found the right bra you can return the other items.

Do I Have to Wear a Veil?

A veil is a wedding tradition but it’s up to you if you want to wear one. Some religious services may require one so ask your officiant.

I personally love veils. It’s so bridal and when in your life will you ever wear one again.

There are a variety of veil styles and lengths so if a long chapel or cathedral-length veil is too long for you, opt for a shorter one that is fingertip, elbow-length or even a birdcage that just covers your eyes. A veil has two parts: there’s the longer tulle that covers the back of your dress and the blusher which covers your face.

As for styles, veils are made from tulle but can be trimmed with ribbon or adorned with crystals. Your bridal salon will probably sell a number of options for you to try on with your wedding dress.

You can remove your veil right after your ceremony but practice doing so before your wedding day so you don’t create a hair emergency.

But as I always say, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. It's your day.

Do I Have to Wear a Garter and Do the Garter Toss?

The answer to both questions is, not if you don’t want to. If the idea of wearing a garter doesn’t bother you but the toss does than wear one and skip the toss.

Some brides will wear a garter with a blue detail for their something blue or a family heirloom as their something old.

If you want to keep the tradition you’ll easily find garters online in both frilly and fashion-forward designs.  (I recommend designer/shop Garter Girl by Julianne Smith) There are garters in every color as well as every color combination and you can find themed garters too. I recently saw garters in college colors with mascot charms (not at Garter Girl).

If your fiance wants to do the toss you should tell him to keep it G or PG-rated because of your comfort level.

Vintage Jewelry Sale On Now at The Aisle New York!

Looking for the perfect jewelry to wear with your wedding dress? How about some beautiful vintage pieces that won’t just look amazing but can also act as your something old?

The Aisle New York is currently running a sale of jewelry from the Carole Tanenbaum Vintage Collection. The pieces include designer and limited edition pieces by Dior, Chanel and Lanvin.

This special sale, which ends Monday, May 23rd, has a variety of items including earrings, broaches and necklaces at unbelievable prices.

The beauty of these pieces is that you can definitely wear them after the wedding and pass them down as a family heirloom -- you can even start a family tradition that every bride wears the one special piece you bought for your own wedding day.

If you’re not familiar with The Aisle New York, it’s an online sale site where brides can find discounted designer wedding dresses, headpieces and jewelry. Membership is required to access the sales but it’s free, so sign up now!

Will You Wear a Garter to Your Wedding?

After all it is a wedding tradition and it could be one of your “somethings.”

A garter was worn to keep pantyhose on but since it no longer acts as a functional item it’s up to the bride to decide if she wants to wear one.

You may receive one as a shower or bachelorette gift, a relative may pass their’s down and a friend may lend you hers but whether you decide to take part in this tradition is up to you.

I don’t know many brides planning on including the garter toss in their wedding reception, but if you are you may want to get a themed garter and wear a gifted or prettier one for the wedding, which you can keep as a memento.

If you decide that you do want to wear a garter I recommend The Garter Girl. Julianne Smith hand-makes custom garters in a variety of fabrics and colors and can also add a monogram, your wedding date, names or a phrase to your garter.