I was talking to a bride today who was concerned that her guests are thinking/were going to think that her wedding is untraditional. She didn’t know how to manage their expectations.
I basically told her that she shouldn’t worry herself with what they thought because this is her wedding and not theirs. And the bottom line is that you are never going to please everyone.
Not every guest is going to love your dress or the food you serve or the flowers on the tables. And that’s okay because all that matters is that you love them and your fiancé loves them.
This is YOUR wedding day and you can’t worry about what other people are going to think. You have to do what’s best for you and plan the wedding of your dreams – not mom’s or his mom’s or grandma’s. Plan your dream wedding and enjoy ever minute of it!
PS - I hope your tears will be tears of joy - I just liked the title, no need to really cry.